Stephen Stoops

With heavy hearts, we announce the passing of Stephen J. Stoops, who left us far too soon on May 11, 2021, at the age of 32. Born on March 19, 1989, Stephen lived a life marked by service, skill, and unwavering love for his family.

Stephen proudly served as a Sergeant in the United States Army, with Cco 1-24 IN BN, where he earned the respect of his peers and the title he carried with honor—hero. He embodied leadership, discipline, and quiet strength, always placing others before himself. Stoops was awarded a Bronze Star with Combat “V” for valor for heroic actions that saved the lives of many of his brothers.

Beyond the uniform, Stephen was a gifted craftsman. A graduate of South Kitsap High School, he went on to earn three associate degrees in Metal Fabrication—turning raw steel into precision work with his hands, discipline, and pride. His work reflected who he was: strong, intentional, and built to last.

But above all, Stephen was a father. His greatest mission in life was loving and raising his three boys. They were his legacy, his purpose, and his heart.

Stephen had a presence that drew people in. Whether you knew him for years or just met him once, you felt it—his authenticity, his loyalty, and his ability to connect. He was well-liked by all, respected by many, and deeply loved by those closest to him.

Though his time here was far too short, the impact of his life will echo through his children, his brothers in arms, and every life he touched.

A warrior. A craftsman. A father. A man who mattered. A hero.

Bronze Star Medal with Combat – V (Valor)

The Bronze Star Medal citation for which Stoops was awarded reads, “For exceptionally valorous service during Operation Enduring Freedom. His heroic actions and complete disregard for his own safety during an enemy attack on Forward Operating base Apache in Afghanistan saved the lives of his fellow soldiers. His bravery is in keeping with the finest traditions of military service and reflects distinct credit upon himself, Task Force Arctic Wolves, Regional Command South, and the United States Army.”

Stoops and Lewis were able to kill the enemy gunman and move to the fallen U.S. Soldiers. Napier died from his injuries in that attack and Bolan is still receiving treatment for his injuries.

“I want people to remember that [Dustin Napier] was an outstanding soldier, husband, brother, son and friend that paid the ultimate sacrifice. He was kindhearted and always had a smile on his face,” Stoops said. “I will never forget Napier; he has touched my life.”